Swag Master from Doncaster

We are the victims of ourselves

Ten Steps on Loving a Girl with Anxiety:
Step 1. Her fears are very much real to her, never say that they aren’t.
Step 2. Don’t tell her to think positive, because sometimes she can only think of the worst possibility that could happen.
Step 3. Never tell her that she’s “overreacting” during an attack, because the anxiety gives her no other choice.
Step 4. Face to face confrontation isn’t always the best idea. If she doesn’t want to meet up, leave her be and don’t get mad.
Step 5. Don’t ever, EVER, tell her that you understand how she feels, because odds are, you don’t.
Step 6. Blaming her for having anxiety is never okay, no matter how mad you are or even if you don’t mean it. She didn’t choose to be this way.
Step 7. Don’t leave her alone because if you do, all she’s left with are her thoughts.
Step 8. Tell her things are going to be okay, because even though it’s not always true, it’ll give her some hope.
Step 9. Don’t make her confront her fears if she doesn’t want to. Sometimes it’s only going to make it worse.
Step 10. Love her. Love everything about her, especially her bad side. Because sometimes all she needs is for you to hold her hand and make her feel like she is worth more than her disorder, because she is.

—a.m.n. (via myunabridgedthoughts)

…He will show you a way out so that you can endure.

—1 Corinthians 10:13 (via praises)

methlake:

I miss being home, it’s so comforting and I want that, but then I don’t at the same time

methlake:

I miss being home, it’s so comforting and I want that, but then I don’t at the same time

(via praises)

riverplants:

if you ever feel stressed or anxious, breathe in for 4 seconds, keep it in for 8 seconds, and exhale for 7 seconds. its amazing what breathing can do for you, and you can do it in a room full of people and nobody will know

(via fuckingwrecked)

i just need to get my shit together

— me in 2009/2012/this time last year/a minute ago/next year probably (via guy)

(Source: jamespmberry, via fuckingwrecked)

always-surrounded:

If your heart doesn’t feel like it’s gonna come out of your chest when the lights go off at a concert you’re either lying or you don’t deserve to go to concerts

(Source: unholyfriend, via laurbearx3)

9 year olds now worry about iphones and makeup when i was 9 i was worried about if miley was gonna pick jake or jessie on hannah montana

(Source: epitomizinq, via laurbearx3)